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Looking at flogging in a different light... [Apr. 7th, 2009|09:00 am]

The Political is Sexual

by Laurie Fendrich

We’ve got so many problems at home right now that the last thing Americans want to think about is the predicament of women in faraway places. But if you’re at all like me, you were deeply shocked by the video of the flogging of the young woman in Pakistan that surfaced on the Internet last week. Look, it’s not as if I don’t know these things happen in the world. It’s just that seeing such a vivid, specific example drove it home to me more viscerally.

The video (apparently taken surreptitiously with a cell phone) shows a 17-year-old Pakistani girl lying in a prone position in some kind of outdoor public area. A large crowd of men is gathered in a circle around her. Her burqa has been pulled up so that you see her legs and bottom, clothed in full-length pink pants. Three men, one of whom is said to be her brother, firmly hold her hands and feet to the ground while a fourth beats her on the buttocks with a heavy-looking bludgeon.

The flogging took place in Pakistan’s northwestern Swat valley, apparently sometime in January — about a month before our so-called ally, the “democratic” Pakistani government, made peace with the Taliban by ceding to it the right to set up Islamic courts in the region. The public punishment inflicted on the girl by this particular group of Taliban adherents was variously attributed to her infidelity, her refusal to marry a particular man who had been chosen for her, or to her leaving her home accompanied by her father-in-law instead of a proper direct male relative.

No one is contesting that the beating took place. In what should come as no surprise, some Taliban spokesman or other remarked that the flogging was appropriate, and the girl deserved it. He added that the only problem was that it was done in public and the flogger wasn’t a pre-pubescent boy. (What better way to teach a young boy healthy attitudes toward women and sex?) Many regular Pakistanis, along with human-rights advocates around the world, were appalled. Pakistani television played the video repeatedly all weekend long. The uproar in Pakistan was sufficient to make the country’s chief judge decide to review the incident (supposedly starting today).

What struck me most about the whole event wasn’t so much the fatiguing fact that yet again men somewhere in the world are doing bad things to women. No, it was the obvious psychosexual dynamics that no one was even bothering to mention. When it comes to the Taliban and women, the heart of the matter isn’t abstract political struggles, or general issues of control over women, or tribal this or that. It’s sexual perversion.

We may feel disgust at societies that control the public behavior of women through corporal punishment, but pragmatists like me concede that direct interference is generally out of the question. The world’s a big place and most of its institutionalized abuses are going to take time, continuous legal pressure, and the steady spread of enlightened ideas pushing against old customs before we’ll see any change.

Yet this particular flogging brought out something particularly bothersome that none of the major media outlets seems to think significant enough to mention. The “public” witnessing the flogging consisted entirely of men (if there’s a woman in there, I sure can’t spot her). In a society where men rarely catch even a glimpse of an ankle of a female who’s not a relative, watching a female who’s not a family member with her burqa pulled up high while her buttocks are beaten amounts to big-time sexual titillation. That crowd of men gathered to watch the flogging? Sexual voyeurs, plain and simple.

Instead of endlessly talking about abstract universal human rights, public leaders and commentators all over the world — especially those who are male — should call these men out for sexual perversion.

Everyone should loudly proclaim that men who flog women — and especially men who watch men while they flog women — are sickos. I have no delusions that this would somehow effect dramatic change. Like I said, the world needs to have patience. But in places where honor counts as much as, if not more than law, shaming (especially regarding male sexual behavior) ought to be part of the arsenal used to defend women.

Posted at 12:47:45 PM on April 6, 2009 | All postings by Laurie Fendrich

Laurie Fendrich, a painter who lives and works in New York, is a professor of fine arts at Hofstra University. Her writing has focused on the place of art and artists in society and the education of young artists, but she has also written essays questioning the viability of beauty in a post-Darwin era, the meaning of abstract painting, and the tyranny of outcomes assessment. She will blog about university life, the arts. and culture.

http://chronicle.com/review/brainstorm/index.php?id=1288


I have never thought of it that way. But when she broke it down in terms of men rarely being able to see under a woman's burqa yet all of the witnesses to the flogging were men, I was like, "DAMN...it's almost like a snuff film."
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From the Focus for Today [Mar. 3rd, 2009|08:33 am]

From Rev. Robert McNeill down in North Carolina (Raliegh, I think):

March 3, 2009 Focus Today From the Word:  Watch What You Wish for Others!

If a man digs a pit, he will fall into it; if a man rolls a stone, it will roll back on him. (Proverbs 26:27, NIV)

 

The context of the verse is how the wicked (Rush Limbaugh’s of the world) use their mouths to persecute the righteous with deceit, gossip, rumors. And though they disguised their hatred and evil designs ever so cleverly, our omniscient God will expose their deceit and judge them openly.


The part in bold made me LOL really really hard.  I mean...this is a PASTOR calling Rush Limbaugh "wicked". Granted, he's a Black pastor, but still...maybe you'll find a chuckle too...
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(no subject) [Feb. 24th, 2009|09:54 pm]
Obama: With the deficit we INHERITED.

Me: YEAH BITCHES!!!! NUKKA WHAT!!!
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watching Obama [Feb. 24th, 2009|09:28 pm]
"I put Joe in charge because NOBODY messes w/ Joe."

F'ING DED!
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That crazy bitch we all love [Jan. 22nd, 2009|06:56 am]
  • 17:44 Ummm, WTF is wrong w/ Vick? How does one ENJOY putting FAMILY PETS in the fighting pit??? #
  • 19:30 @blbella1 Kinda warm? So what is that, 5-10 degrees? #
  • 22:00 @rubyphoenix *eyeroll* Yeah, I get it. LOL #
  • 22:25 @blbella1 Sweetie, it's not an age thing. It's a geography thing. New guinea pig. Papua New Guinea. See the connection? #
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That crazy bitch we all love [Jan. 21st, 2009|07:01 am]
  • 06:14 @rubyphoenix Yeah, I saw that this morning. The woman w/ the short & the brotha were GETTIN' IT!!!! #
  • 06:15 Part of me feels like I should get up & go down there. But another part knows I'm dealing w/ PMS pain, gas, & bloating. #
  • 06:24 cjcollier is going to make his goal of leaving by 7:30 am. Good for him. I'm going back to sleep. #
  • 06:49 @rubyphoenix it's B/C of the crowds that I'm not going. I go down there I get arrested for dropping stink bombs!!!! #
  • 07:04 @rubyphoenix Exactly. Besides, cjcollier is going so I'll live vicariously thru him. #
  • 07:04 @cjcollier Did u get my text? Go to L'Enfant Plaza or the red line to Judiciary Sq OR red to Union Station. #
  • 07:08 watching a JFK doc on History Chan. Yo, that man was REEEAAALLLYYY sick. No wonder he was hopped up on amphetamines. #
  • 07:19 @cjcollier Yeah, not really surprised. I KNOW those trains are more crowded than a compacted colon. #
  • 07:27 @cjcollier Hmmmm, naw, I'd rather not. Remember, I've done July 4th on the mall when Smithsonian was closed. I'm GOOD, yo! #
  • 08:13 @cjcollier your twitter is going out. Wow, r u @ L'Enfant? #
  • 11:18 It is funny to watch obama speak & then the cams cut to Bush. He HAS to know that he left so much for Obama to fix #
  • 11:28 Laura & Barbara Bush have the bitchiest looks on their faces. #
  • 11:39 Damn it feels good to hear President Barack & First Lady Michelle. ESPECIALLY 1st Lady Michelle. God she is BEAUTIFUL!!! #
  • 11:41 I loved Rev. Lowery's benediction. Tho he was playin' w/ Black stay back #
  • 11:42 @cjcollier So r u coming back now or r u gonna mill around down there? Did u eat already? #
  • 11:47 Looka here, Bush has RORYALLY screwed this nation for SOMEONE'S benefit. OF COURSE he's gonna get booed. #
  • 11:49 BO(& America) to GWB: God Bless. Please don't let the door hit u where the Good Lord split u. #
  • 12:00 @masteradept I woke up just in time too. I had actually set the alarm to catch Biden but dozed off. #
  • 14:12 I am officially inauguration'd out. Chalk it up to my ADD but I'm ready to move on to the real shit. #
  • 14:13 As a result, I am watching Bad Girls Club on Oxygen. Ummmm, Kayce needs detox & rehab & therapy & lots o' hugs. #
  • 15:19 @masteradept I'm gonna rank that up there w/ them telling us EVERY place Bush landed on 9/11 when we're CLEARLY under attack #
  • 15:20 Granted GWB isn't my fav POTUS but DAMN. Telling us where he was @ that time was like putting a "shoot me" sign on his back. #
  • 15:36 Oh, I'm sorry...KAYLA from the Bad Girls Club. #
  • 16:19 @tressiemc What did she do? #
  • 18:30 FINALLY getting around to watching Be Kind Rewind. I've had this DVD for a minute. #
  • 19:07 @rubyphoenix YAAAYYYY VICTORY S3X!!!! #
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That crazy bitch we all love [Jan. 20th, 2009|06:56 am]
  • 07:39 @blbella1 Well, u can always tell her that you don't want to hear about ol' boy anymore. #
  • 17:24 need a nap to hang out tonight. damn I'm getting old. BOOOOOOO sleepiness!!! #
  • 20:02 why do I have to have PMS pain NOW!!!??!?!? #
  • 05:48 just woke up w/ cjcollier. Turned on CNN. OMG LOOK @ ALL THOSE PPL @ 6:45 AM!!!!! #
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That crazy bitch we all love [Jan. 19th, 2009|06:14 am]
  • 07:37 @donlemoncnn Look, we can't see your feet. I suggest some thermal socks & boots. Frostbitten toes r NOT a hot look. #
  • 10:30 @ IHOP w/ cjcollier. Mmmmmmm, pancakes. #
  • 15:51 Ummmmm, I want the Cards to be drug tested. How the hell do u get THAT good THAT quickly??? #
  • 16:00 This is ridiculous. AND our waitress sucks more than a hooker @ a Vegas business convention. #
  • 16:45 OMG R U SERIOUS, IGGLES????? #
  • 20:58 Dear Baltimore, OMG WTF NFL!!!!! #
  • 21:06 Dear Lord, PLEASE let Willis McGahee be okay after that hit. It was a clean hit but LORD was it HARD!!! #
  • 21:08 Dear Steelers Fans, Thank u for being so gracious to Willis as he was being carted off. That brought a tear to my eye. #
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That crazy bitch we all love [Jan. 18th, 2009|06:37 am]
  • 13:48 @donlemoncnn Glad to have u down here. Look fwd to seeing u on CNN. #
  • 13:49 this wknd is going to be crazy!!!! Thank God I don't LIVE downtown. #
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That crazy bitch we all love [Jan. 17th, 2009|06:28 am]
  • 07:55 7-Eleveb has the best brownies. So great when u need a chocolate fix. #
  • 09:35 It is supposed to be 6 (SIX) degrees tonight. That is NOT a hot look!!! #
  • 18:08 @rubyphoenix *hug* Sorry dear. You have my sincere condolonces. #
  • 20:56 I am so blessed. Sometimes i forget what a blessed life I've had. #
  • 23:30 @cjcollier PLEASE get some rest before getting on the road. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!!! #
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That crazy bitch we all love [Jan. 16th, 2009|06:50 am]
  • 09:01 what can I do individually to make this place a true institute of higher learning? Gimme your thoughts, folks... #
  • 09:06 In the state of MD, 73% of white kids earn their BS/BA w/in 6 yrs. 42% of Black kids do the same. My school has a 38% 6yr grad rate. #
  • 14:34 @rubyphoenix *hug* I'm so sorry sweetie. Wish I could do something (legal) to make it better #
  • 18:31 When my room is neat, I have more than enough room for a twin size inflatable mattress. WOO-HOO!!! #
  • 20:43 Salma Hayek is finer than frog's legs. DAMN that woman looks good!!! #
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Come on y'all... [Jan. 15th, 2009|09:04 am]
I have Faculty Development Workshop today and tomorrow.  This means I need entertainment.  I will be checking LJ and Twitter on my phone (so no vids cuz I can't see them).  Please keep me from falling asleep.  I've been told I snore.


OH, and...how old were you when you started going off to school by yourself?  At what age did you become a latch-key kid?  At what age will your kids become latchkey kids?

I'll answer the question later.  I'm late for the opening address. *eyeroll...making the jerking off motion*
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That crazy bitch we all love [Jan. 15th, 2009|06:25 am]
  • 10:12 @blbella1 Ummmmmm, no. Sse, THAT isn't a reason 4 a parent to call. If Jr can't find it on his own, his monkey ass doesn't need to be there #
  • 10:13 After seeing Bush's last press conf, I'm convinced that man is delusional. #
  • 10:14 I can not fathom -50°F wind chills. Just...my brain does not compute. #
  • 15:22 U ever get the feeling that a BUNCH of stuff is gonna come out once Bush leaves office? #
  • 18:31 @cjcollier What's secrettweet? #
  • 18:32 I SOOOOO kick ass on Jeopardy. #
  • 19:46 Just now realizing how much the drama @ home affected me. I still don't feel relaxed. #
  • 20:54 @ladyinbrown Hmmmmm, IDK. I'd take sex over Spanish if I knew the sex would be good. Conjugating verbs isn't that hard. *lol* #
  • 20:56 @ladyinbrown But getting some GOOD sex? Now that can be quite a challenge. #
  • 20:58 *watching Lost* I LOVE this show. Can't wait until next Wed. Glad I didn't watch the first four episodes early. #
  • 21:01 @blbella1 Ummm, don't be a hater b/c u are in BF Iowa & getting nookie is hard (unless u wanna go THERE). U shoulda worked that out whil ... #
  • 21:13 @blbella1 Well hun, IDK what 2 tell u. I guess u have a lot of fun w/ Rosie Palm & her five sisters. #
  • 21:22 It's gonna be COLD tomorrow! I mean, not BF, IA cold, but still cold. #
  • 21:24 Looka here, I am a descendant of tropical ppl & born in CA. I wasn't made for this cold shit. #
  • 21:25 @brownskinblue U left ur phone? Huh? Don't u feel, like, NAKED??? #
  • 22:05 @blbella1 Wait, it's 10 pm in IA. Hmmmm...*raised eyebrow, pinky to the corner of my mouth* #
  • 22:28 Okay, ummmm...I'm really likin' this RockBand 2 commercial. Good choice of song & group #
  • 22:30 U know who else has tight commercial/break music? Adult Swim. Do they have a sndtrk or something? #
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That crazy bitch we all love [Jan. 14th, 2009|06:23 am]
  • 16:43 @blbella1 Idk...I think parents should call for undergrads up to 1st sem/jr yr. After that, the student should hnadle that. #
  • 16:44 @blbella1 But yeah, a doctoral student??? S/he better do it her/his damn self!!! #
  • 19:38 @blbella1 I'm w/ u. They do. BUT, considering that parents' personal info goes on a FAFSA, & parents' $ affects YOU getting YOUR $... #
  • 19:39 I can understand parents being involved initially. Financial aid, Student accounts, &housing should be the depts that parents call #
  • 19:40 Cuz when u think financial aid covers everything, u get REAL pissed when u find out Jr can't take finals #
  • 19:41 B/c the remainder of the bill hasn't been paid #
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That crazy bitch we all love [Jan. 13th, 2009|06:20 am]
  • 21:11 watching intervention. I HATE when parents (esp. moms) do not blieve thier kids about sexual abuse #
  • 21:12 Why would your child make up some shit like that? #
  • 22:03 @brownskinblue Yeah THAT sucks. But here was a woman who was molested by one fam member & raped by another. Her mother REFUSES to believe #
  • 22:04 granted, the woman shouldn't still use the pain of that to excuse her drinking but Moms was on some "my kids didn't want me to be happy" tip #
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That crazy bitch we all love [Jan. 12th, 2009|06:16 am]
  • 10:35 I did not make it to church this AM. I've been a BAD BAD girl!!! #
  • 10:37 *singing* Don't leave your _______ 'round me. True playa for real, ask CJC #
  • 12:16 @brownskinblue Naw, I'ma call u. Just need a nap. Didn't get much sleep last night. *wink* #
  • 16:34 Necesito llamar mi madre. #
  • 17:37 Pittsburgh just scored & the score is 21-10. The thought of a BAL-PIT AFC champ game? Mmmmmmmmm.... #
  • 17:41 Dear Steelers, VERY nice way to come back from that BS y'all just called special teams. I LOVE DEFENSE!!!!! #
  • 18:06 Oh Steelers, y'all gotta take the points. Quit trying to be greedy! #
  • 19:01 *sigh* Ben Roethlisberger. Damn. I want to have his babies...& then teach them to be linebackers. #
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That crazy bitch we all love [Jan. 11th, 2009|06:20 am]
  • 11:58 @brownskinblue Umm, I'm w/ tressie. You don't wanna know what when thru my mind when the phone rang this AM. #
  • 11:59 Whoops..I meant *went* #
  • 12:00 *sigh* I have work to do. Just don't wanna do it. BOOOOOO work! HOO-RAY BEER!!!! #
  • 13:01 @brownskinblue Mmmmmhmmm *cutting my eyes @ u* #
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That crazy bitch we all love [Jan. 10th, 2009|06:20 am]
  • 14:07 Can someone PLEASE show me where in the Bible it says that JESUS was a carpenter. I know JOSEPH was, but what about Jesus? #
  • 17:49 *sigh* I'm bored. this is NOT a good thing #
  • 19:57 @rubyphoenix "Closer" makes me want to do really bad things every time i hear it. I'm talking BDSM w/ vinyl clothing. #
  • 21:39 @masteradept have u seen the uncut video? #
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That crazy bitch we all love [Jan. 9th, 2009|06:22 am]
  • 11:58 I'm back. Got back to my house around 12:30 last nite. I'm so sleepy! #
  • 12:11 IDK...I feel like i have so many readjustments to make but IDK why i feel that way #
  • 21:06 Dear OU & UF, I see your bands. I'm not impressed. This is why Grambling, Howard, FAMU, & Hampton will be in THE parade & not u. #
  • 22:47 Dear Florida, I normally hate u but i needed u to win this to help prove my point that the BCS SUCKS!!! thank u for ur assistance #
  • 22:51 This Gator win is quite sexy. I wish i had someone to help me debate why this victory along w/ the TX Fiesta win supports a CFB playoff #
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That crazy bitch we all love [Jan. 8th, 2009|06:14 am]
  • 12:29 @rubyphoenix @blbella1 y'all are some smart asses! *lol* #
  • 14:22 I'm @ the airport trying decide btwn a mojito & beer. It'll be a mojito if they have it. #
  • 14:23 no mojito. going w/ a double shot screwdriver. I wanna be good & buzzed when boarding so I can go to sleep. #
  • 14:27 dear Dwight Freeney...You bet' not EVER lemme catch u in a dark corner. I'll make u stalk me! #
  • 14:29 Ya know, I had a babysitter who use to drink bloody mary's & Schlitz Bull. & yet I've never had either one. Interesting. #
  • 14:31 I think BC is a BITCH for firing their head coach for interviewing w/ the Jets. I hope they SUCK IT next year. Then NC can win the ACC. #
  • 14:32 Here's to hoping cjcollier doesn't slit his wrists over Stafford & Moreno leaving the Dawgs. #
  • 14:44 @cjcollier I'm gonna assume u mean SAFE travels, to which I say DANKE SCHÖEN!!! #
  • 14:46 Dear Whitefolks, do not EVER ask a Black woman if her long hair is hers. It really isn't in your best interests. #
  • 14:47 All folks who think Israel has lost its motherhumpin' mind, raise you hand. *raising both hands & feet* #
  • 14:49 @blbella1 Well, u know it wasn't ME as a) my hair is prolly shorter than yours & b) I haven't mentioned cussing out any whitefolks. But ... #
  • 14:50 @blbella1 Someone did. 1 of my neighbors told me about that last night when I was discussin DC segregation vs. CA denial of racism #
  • 14:52 GREAT! Now I'm hungry for some BK. This is gonna fuck up my buzz. Which might be a good thing cuz now I'm kinda horny #
  • 14:57 @tressiemc Soooo, if my mom gets off drugs cuz of rehab, that would be white jesus. #
  • 14:59 But if she got off drugs cuz G'ma threatened her w/ a shotgun, that would be Black Jesus? #
  • 15:20 I wonder if I can talk youngin' into giving me a much needed massage. I bet he'd do it if I flashed him. #
  • 15:23 I hate that I'm going to miss the Davidson-Duke game. U know who I'm rooting for. #
  • 15:25 I told P I wanna get Duke cloth diapers so I can tell the kids they've been shitting on Duke since birth. #
  • 20:02 I am firm believer that you meet the ppl you meet for a reason. #
  • 20:04 I have met the head football coach of the Ivy League Champs, Brown Univ. #
  • 20:05 He gave me his card & was encouraging when i said i wanted to coach. WOW!!! #
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